The dating game and why we do it.

Everyone no matter if you are the biggest cynic in the world about love, wants to fall in love or simply to be loved. Normally the ones with the biggest chip on there shoulder about dating and love are normally the ones who crave love the most, normally those guy are the ones looking for something special that really means something to them (and no ladies I don’t mean go out and find a guy like this fix them and prove them wrong) I mean don’t give up easily but also don’t stick out something that compromises who you truly are. We go on dates; we try on line dating, speed dating and get set up on blind dates. I myself have been on countless amounts of dates, some funny, some that lead into serious relationships and some that simply crash and burn, so why do it? Because we all want to find that relationship that is special, special enough to want to say hey upi know what despite all the shit you are the one I want to give the unknown a go with. Ladies out there someone’s x is always someone’s love of their life. So I get told all the time that dating sux’s and that they wish he or she would just come along already. It always makes me laugh. My answer is Make life happen – Stop worrying about dating I have figured out that when we as women feel good we look great. I took 50 women away who had not had a date in years. We I sat down with them I couldn’t figure out why, they were beautiful, intelligent women but one thing was missing – belief, Belief that they where sexy, beautiful, intelligent etc. I spent the morning, installing into theses women value in who they where and what helping them outline what they have to offer themselves and a partner. I feel it is truly empowering when a woman can look at herself in the mirror and say “I look good” no matter what shape or size she is, and I am not saying its that simply buy getting a makeover but you know what sometimes that’s all that is need because you know what all those ladies made the first big step that first big step which was stepping out side there comfort zone coming on the singles weekend away. A big pat on the back is deserved there because it takes so serious courage to do something like that. I tell you what thou, these weekends have seriously changed some people lives and it has been a privledge and insight to watch. So the short cut is – don’t wait for dating to happen, make life happen and live life to your fullest and the dates will follow! TIP – Think about it when you are full of confidence and what that picture look like and re create that every day, or at least once per week.